The Law of Attraction is everywhere -
even in school grades

‘D’ is for de-grading....

I recently read a blog where a parent was seeking help from a ‘conventional therapist ’who gave this parent seeking help for her teens the opposite answer that I would have suggested.

It was not at all about using the LAW OF ATTRACTION principles.

The request for help went like this, plus another twenty lines of the same: “my 13 year old came home with 3 D's and my 15 year old came home with 2 F's. Pardon my French but WTF happened here.”

If you’re a parent who wants to live in harmony with your children and use the ‘the law of attraction’ principles, the ‘D’ really stands for degrading... and the ‘F’ stands for failure. And I’m not talking about the kids, I’m talking about the parents. Many have heard the expression,‘The oxygen mask must go on the parent first, and then the child ... ‘ If you want alignment and harmony use the same rule and use the Law of Attraction action in a positive way.

This mother’s request for help had one remark after another using words like “I was ready to die’ ‘it’s been a nightmare’ ‘it’s been impossible’ ‘we pay a lot of money’ ‘I’ve taken away... no computers, video games’ ‘they only get their cell phones in an emergency’... Her request for help was laced with blame, anger, and disappointment. This kind of energy would have any child headed for D’s just being around a parent using this kind of vibrational energy. I’m sure this negative energy comes out in other events in their household too as the Law of Attraction expanses energy that automatically creates other negative events in their lives.

I wonder if her children might have considered her ranking as a parent might be ‘D’ for draining and drama.

D’s are degrading, depleting, demoralizing... If your kid has D’s and F’s, look at the reason. Look at were their joy has gone, their support, their understanding. What is the real reason they may have triggered that part of their life to go off track.

I didn’t sense that when I read the scream for help like it was someone else’s problem. It was the school, their teachers, the kids, and not this parent who’s thoughts and words were laced with negativity.

Some kids just don't get the subject. Be compassionate. They'll get it quicker if there's kindness. I’ve experienced grades like this in a system that is very ridged and teachers who have no flow or consideration.

We jokingly referred to an experience like this as ‘D’ just stands for being in a ditch.

My kid, her first test, in her honors Math class, after nearly three months of summer and play, arrived at school with her brain feeling very distanced from the system. She got a ‘D’. She passed the next test with a 'B.' She was still in the ditch, she now had a ‘D+’. Then she was on a roll. She got one ‘A’ after another. Slowly she was climbing her way out of the ditch. And then BOOM, she learned something new, and with her, she has those moments of not knowing how to do something until ‘the penny drops.’ I recognized early on that this is how she learns. It's what works for her. I have always said to her, “Honey, school is for learning, if you knew everything you wouldn’t have to go. Don’t worry about it, you’ll get it.” And I would let it go with a smile.

Even her teacher was confused and apologetic when she would see that more often she would get 100%, and actually received as many A’s as D’s.

She could see how some kids would be treated taking home scores like this. Parents who are very strict on them about being perfect can damage them in other ways.It's not a good method of teaching when it's depleting, demoralizing, and ‘de-grading.’

I never once thought of deducted items she loved. These things brought her back into balance. Giving her a detention would only deplete her, depress her, and I know that the Law of Attraction states time and time again, what you give your attention to magnifies-- Good or bad.

I read all the other comments on the blog and everyone mentioned the punishment they give their children. Parents often turn to, 'you’re grounded,' 'you’re not allowed this and this now'. Maybe that works temporally for some. More often you’ll find the same rule plays out over and over again in a family manifests other events that are equally as bad.

Kids and parents shouldn’t have to go through years of D’s, and live in households full of ‘drama.’

Turn the D’s into delightful, delicious, and know in your heart, your kids are determined to do better. It's natural to want to do better. Find that natural balance and they'll do better.

B's are for BALANCE

A's aren't just for achievement

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